A long overdue thank you.

       Well the last couple months have been a roller-coaster ride for a whole lot of reasons and it's about time that things changed. This whole journey of wanting to start Young Life in Slave Lake has been a real stretch for me and I'm so glad. I just thank God for plucking away the things that I lean on and depend on and I hope He continues as hard as it is because it is in the desperation of those places that I really actually seek Him.

        Amazing things have happened with Young Life - don't get me wrong. People have been interested, four kids came to Rockridge, and left with a renewed excitement for Jesus and what Young Life could look like in Slave Lake. But somewhere along the way I got caught up in all that I had to "do" and put so much pressure on myself to "give, give give" that I burned off all my energy until I had none. I came to a place where I realized I had put "doing stuff for Young Life" before spending real time with God, before spending real time with my husband and that realization came to me in a big way.

        I showed up in Ontario for a week feeling burned out and spent emotionally. I had no desire to think, talk or pray about Young Life. I felt frustrated at the lack of physical support. I had prayer support, and financial support but no one physically coming forward to say - "Let's do this together." But it wasn't really that. It was me. I was trying to make something out of nothing. I was convinced that people wouldn't get involved and so I was putting so much pressure on myself to provide the resources here in Slave Lake. But the thing is - there are a whole bundle of resources out there. People who are trained in Young Life, providing conferences, camps, events, the works and all I have to do is show up with people. There's resources online, videos, you name it. And yet I felt like I needed to provide my own - to get people onboard and excited and doing things.

        Now I see how naiive I was coming into this. Starting a ministry is a slow process. It requires hours and hours of prayer and relationship building and stepping out and stepping back and waiting and those are things that I have NEVER been good at. I want things to happen quickly, NOW,  for people just JUMP on board and for things to just come together. I don't want to sit and pray - I want answers. And yet these are integral things for a ministry to stay on track, to develop in total tune with God's desires and heart and intention. The moment I make it about me and my intentions and my timing - I am digging a huge burnt out hole.

     And I see that now. And God I thank you for letting me fall into that hole. What a dangerous place to be. Thank God that I actually didn't have a team of volunteers and people working alongside me. Those people would have fallen in with me and a lot of what makes Young Life such a beautiful testimony of Jesus would have been overshadowed by the stress of it all.

     I need to start from a place where I am moving when God moves, and going where God goes and speaking when He speaks. And I need a team of adults around me to be praying through this process and encouraging each other and reminding each other of these things. So God I just lay all of that chaos at your feet. Forgive me for running ahead with my own agenda. Forgive me for putting tasks ahead of time with You. Help me to pray for the right things. Bring like-minded people into this - not people that I am playing tug-o-war with - but people that really have a heart for a ministry like this.

      Give us opportunities for people to actually taste of Young Life's ministry. I don't expect anyone to commit to something they have not experienced for themselves. I wouldn't have. It is through my personal experience of meeting Jesus time and time again through the ministry of Young Life that has me so sold out for starting it here. Nothing more. Not the amazing camp or the crazy fun games - although those things lend a beautiful credibility to it as a ministry. More so the relationships I have developed through it - with God, with other leaders, and with the kids that I have such compassion for.

     God I just praise You for how You are orchestrating our lives right now. Jay was restless at church so we visited another one this past Sunday. A woman spoke up about her bible study group and how it's all about 'doing life together' and it just caught ahold of me because that is where my heart is. I asked her to meet and we went for a long walk today. I shared about Young Life and my heart and she shared her heart and the things she said and the desires she has for her family, her kids, her community just so resonate with where I'm at and with Young Life mentality. God You are gonna do amazing things in Jay and my life as we step out of what we are comfortable with (i.e a regular church, and whatever else you call us out of) and I'm so excited to be pulled and prodded and to see how Your design comes together so perfectly in the different moments that You bring about in Your perfect timing.

So thank you, thank you, thank you. It's LONG overdue!!!!

Plans of the heart - part 3

Grant - May 19th Sat teaching session

Luke 5  - Simon Peter and Jesus met
-not by chance, but so that Jesus could get in the boat of Peter

Peter really struggled to trust Jesus when Jesus asked him to fish. See Peter was a fisherman - he knew all about fishing, when the best time to fish was and Jesus was a carpenter, not a fisherman. But Peter humoured Jesus' request regardless.

Challenge:
Do I trust God with the things in Young Life I have no idea about?
Do I trust God with the things in Young Life that I know a lot about?

Grant gave an example of Apple. They are so good at creating all of their software to go together. Lots of companies boast that you can pick and choose different pieces to go together. And yet, Apple specifically created their products to work together.

Likewise, God has created everything to work together. So often, we want to pick and choose what we want to trust God with. "Well God, you can have this, but I need to be in control of this..."
How incredible when we just trust God with everything - the things we are sure of and the things we aren't sure of...

Plans of the heart - part 2

    God is just incredible. I just can't express to you how incredible He is. Words just won't describe. I went to the National Young Life conference, hoping for God to reveal His purpose, to confirm the plans in my heart for starting Young Life in Slave Lake. I hoped that through this conference - I would grow closer to Him, that I would become even more attuned to His heart for Slave Lake and that He would show me a clearer picture of what it takes to start Young Life in a new area.

One of the most stretching things that I encountered on this weekend was something that Jay and I had to process together. We had come to the conference with the Edmonton crowd - a great group of people who love God and love Young Life ministry. We came, excited to reconnect with Ontario Young Lifers - as it had only been 6 months since our time with them.

What we came to realize quickly is that we weren't really part of either of those groups - neither Edmonton nor Ontario. It hit us both quite hard and it was a pretty difficult realization. To go from being part of a team of leaders, of that support group, to this kind of pioneering adventure we have found ourselves on, kind of put us in a different category. Suddenly we realized, we were no longer 'Ontario' leaders. We were 'Slave Lake' leaders - just the two of us. There was no team of leaders, no fellow volunteers to give us that sense of community. We were starting essentially from scratch - just us two.

On one sense it was an emotionally draining feeling. I had to go out onto the balcony at one point because I just didn't want to cry in front of everyone. And yet, in the midst of the tough stuff, God was caring for us and drawing Jay and I closer. In that moment when I left to go outside, Jay knew exactly why I'd left. He understood exactly where I was coming from.

I gave myself a moment and then walked back inside, trying to hold back the tears.
I had just walked in the door, when I glanced over and saw Bonnie Rawling - a woman whom I had connected with during camp week last August. She asked if I was ok and I immediately indicated that I needed to go outside. When she asked what was wrong I began to explain to her that Jay and I were trying to start Young Life in Slave Lake and that we felt so alone in it all - that we just felt overwhelmed.

As soon as I mentioned Slave Lake, Bonnie's eyes lit up and she said, "Wait a minute! That's you guys? You're the ones starting Young Life in Slave Lake?!!"

Turns out a family friend of ours - Richard Muir - had contacted Bonnie a few months ago and asked her to contact us, to encourage us in our endeavours in SL. Bonnie had been quite busy with things and hadn't got around to it. She had never made the connection of who we were.

In that moment as we realized how perfectly God had orchestrated this moment - we were just blown away. Just then, Jay walked out to the balcony to join us. We shared with him what'd we just discovered and it was so incredible to see God so blatantly caring for us in His perfect timing. Jay and I talked some more with Bonnie about where we were at and she prayed with us and then we went back inside.

It was an emotional thing - this feeling that Jay and I were going through . And yet - God turned it around. He showed me how Jay and I understood each other in where we were at and what we were struggling with. He showed me Jay's strengths and how his strengths compliment my weaknesses and vice versa. I came away from this weekend so convinced that I was part of a good solid team - of Jay and I and that God knew exactly what He was doing in His perfect timing.

As hard as it is to grasp, we aren't a part of Young Life Ontario anymore. We surely have their support, their prayers, their encouragement and that truly means the world. But this desire - these plans that God has laid on our hearts to start Young Life in Slave Lake is a new path that we alone have to walk. We aren't a part of Young Life Edmonton either. We hope to be involved as much as we can, in being connected with their community, and learning from their examples, and yet starting  YL in a small town like Slave Lake is an entirely different venture.

What I am convinced of is this - that God knows the ins and outs of Slave Lake. He knows the youth intimately - he knows their hearts and what they think of him. He knows just what'll it'll take to reach these kids and introduce them to Jesus. Jay and I may feel as though we are floundering on our own sometimes, but I know as long as we are surrendered to God - He will make incredible things happen. He is making incredible things happen in just the short time we've been here. And I just can't wait to see more!

Plans of the heart - part 1

I should go to sleep but I am wide awake - so blown away by the ways that God is working in my life.

And I can't just leave it in my journal - I need to testify out in the open of God's faithfulness and amazing character.

"The plans of the heart belong to man, but the answer of the tongue is from the LORD. All the ways of a man are pure in his own eyes, but the LORD weighs the spirit. Commit your work to the LORD, and your plans will be established." - Proverbs 16:1-2

I just can't get over God's amazingness. I am not liberty to share the most recent thing God is orchestrating but I hope to be able to share it by next week. But He has revealed so much to me in the past week that I have plenty to share regardless.

Last week I wrote a blog about having kidney stone pain. Reading back on it, it seems quite dramatic and yet I assure you, I meant every word.

Last wednesday I was taken by ambulance to Edmonton. Thursday night I was back in Slave Lake hospital, with a kidney stent installed and on a high dosage of morphine. In spite of the morphine, I literally felt like I was battered - like someone had kicked me over and over in the ribs and back. The stent was to relieve that pain and yet it took a bit to kick in. I actually had to wait for the morphine to wear off so that I could get different pain meds because the morphine wasn't enough. I was hallucinating like crazy and talking out loud - Jay probably would have laughed a lot , had the situation not seemed so serious. I thought to myself - there's no way I'll get to go to the National Young Life conference in BC this weekend. It just didn't seem possible .

I tell you the extreme pain I was in because I want to testify of God's faithfulness. Literally, Thursday morning came and I felt like a different person. I still had pain but I felt like I could actually get up. And I did. Jay picked me up, we went home and packed our suitcases. Jay went back to work and I rested. By Thursday night, we found ourselves driving down to Edmonton to stay the night at a friend's. Friday morning we were up at 5:30am, and by 6:30am we were on a bus headed down to BC for the conference.

As if this wasn't miraculous enough - I kid you not - I had no pain the entire weekend. I went from being on 7 different medications to taking one pain medication along with my antibiotics and other pills. It was just incredible. Here I was at a camp in the middle of the mountains, walking all over camp, up and down the gravel paths to my cabin and I was pain-free. I just couldn't believe God's grace. I was able to attend every worship/teaching session. I was fully able to engage in all the different aspects of the conference. It was incredible.

the truth. plain and simple.

It's a startling realization - our fragility. That with a flip of a switch, I find myself trembling and pain-stricken at the mercy of strangers in a hospital.

That nothing I can do can change the pain I'm feeling. I am completely helpless. It is perhaps one of the most frightening feelings out there.

You go into the bathroom and the person staring back at you is a ghost. Pale, dark circles under eyes. You move around in a daze - numb to anything but the awareness of your pain. You can't think beyond it.

The other patient in the room was an older man. By himself. I am so scared of the inevitability of being old and sick and quite possibly alone. It's bound to happen. I'm only 25 and I have a kidney stone already.

Being sick, the hardest thing has been the absence of my family, especially my mum. She has a way of telling me everything will be fine and I choose to believe her because she can say it so convincingly.

The realization that I don't want to have kids in Slave Lake hits me hard in this moment. I need my mum close for that. And I wonder how long God will call us to Slave Lake. I do desire to follow Him and so that is the main factor.

When you're in pain you feel as though you are far away from everyone else. Walking in circles - a current that takes you around and around and you can't stop it. People drop suggestions, opinions, medications at your feet and you take it in blindly, barely caring.

Your appetite is gone. You get viciously sick of drinking water as every medication reads 'take with plenty of water.' You want to crawl into a hole and wish it all away.

Waiting on God is the hardest thing. He has done so much already - giving me the ultrasound Monday when someone cancelled so I wouldn't have to wait a week. Giving me medication that does work. Giving me friends by my side when I break down crying in church because it feels so hopeless. Giving me Jay to just hold me when I feel so fragile and empty.

But it's still hard. I will continue to praise Him - I do continue to praise Him. But it's still hard.

I don't know how Job did it. I don't know how people with chronic pain or cancer or other painful diseases do it. In fact, I don't know how anyone can do it without God to believe in - to give you hope.

Trying to remember scripture.

You , O Lord, give a perfect peace to those who hope and put their trust in You. Isaiah 26:3
Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding, in all your ways acknowledge Him and He will make your paths straight. Proverbs 3

These are the mantras I cling to. When my sleep is interrupted every hour by dreams that wake me up to pain, I say these over and over.

And when the pain is gone, when the meds have kicked in, you pretend you are a normal healthy person. That it was all just a nightmare. That it was in your imagination. You feel liberated and yet you are not perfectly pain free. Your muscles ache from the intense chills. Your head throbs from tense shoulders. You are still hovering on the edge of the nightmare. Enough to stand it. Enough to smile , but enough to sense that the pain will come back around.

I write this because as I lay in bed in agony, these words started jumping around in my head. Writing is a good release. I don't write this to ignite a pity party or to make it seem like my life is unbearable. I just write the truth for myself. So that when this is all over, I will look back and not take health for granted.

Because we do take our health for granted. Like we have the right to be healthy and yet it is by God's grace that we are given that gift. And when our health is shaky, by His grace He gives us the strength to get through it.

and that's the truth. plain and simple.

overwhelmed by God's perfect plan

"One life totally devoted to God is of more value to Him than one hundred lives which have been simply awakened by His Spirit." - Oswald Chambers


I love this quote. It totally resonates with where my heart is at - with Young Life and the things that God is teaching me in my own walk with Him. 


I jumped feet first into this 'starting Young Life in Slave Lake' thing - eager to see things happen. You know those verses in Psalms that talk about waiting on God. Well - it's very easy to say "I'll wait on God" but it's a whole lot harder to do it. 


I kept seeing potential Young Life people and I would excitedly share my heart expecting that they would just jump in with me. But things weren't going as I'd thought they would and it took someone challenging me to pray a different prayer - "God, who do you want on this team?" Once I stepped back and started praying that - my agenda was irrelevant. Suddenly the pressure was no longer there - the pressure to give an awesome sales pitch and get this person to jump on the YL bandwagon. Suddenly it became about what God was doing and how He is moving in all of this and not about me talking to the 'right' people and doing the 'right' things to get people on board. 


I tell ya - it is incredibly comforting to let go of the reins and give stuff up to God. Technically, I never had control of the reins in the first place - I had just convinced myself that the burden was on me to shoulder the load and so I had to do whatever I had to. But God has been challenging me - through Oswald Chambers - My Utmost for His Highest & through the book - "Breaking Intimidation" by John Bevere. Both sources have been pulling me towards God, towards scripture and the power of prayer - all things that are essential in starting a ministry in a town. 


And I think with starting a ministry that the beauty is that there will continue to be times of God opening doors - BAM BAM BAM - just like that. There will also be times of discouragement. There will be times of just waiting....and waiting...and waiting...for God to move, to direct my steps. And those times of waiting are just as vital as the times of opening doors and confirming my decisions. Those are the times that stretch me and mould me into what God would want in someone he wants to use in ministry. 


Even in the midst of opening doors there are things up ahead that still look impossible but I truly believe that God will resolve and do incredible things - but it will be in His perfect timing and on his agenda - not mine. 


I just wanted to write this to give Him praise for all the amazing things that are happening in Slave Lake - opportunities to get into the high schools, conversations with kids that have been so eye-opening and challenging me to go to scripture for answers, people that are interested in the ministry of Young Life and see potential for it in Slave Lake. 


There have already been blunders on my part, miscommunications, and struggles. I feel often that I am floundering around - desiring to do what God has laid on my heart and yet feeling so ill-equipped and discouraged at the times I get in the way of what God wants to do. And yet there have also been times of forgiveness, of trusting and building of relationships - of encouragement and reminders to keep focused and stay attuned to God's heart. 


That's what gives me hope- that in spite of the messed up sinner that I am - quick to anger, quick to impatience, worrying, trying to take control, saying things I shouldn't, ignoring God at times, putting myself and my needs over God, the list goes on and on.. In spite of those things - God wants to use me - me of all people for a ministry that could get totally messed up by the things I struggle with. And yet as I learn daily to surrender that stuff to God - I am reminder that 'I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me' - that "He who has begun a good work in me will bring it to completion" - that "He so loved the world (and me) that he gave His one and only Son - that whosoever believes in Him will receive eternal life." 


It's craziness - that the God of the universe would offer to us what He does - that He would give us a second chance, and a third chance, and a tenth, and a 100th - that He cares about every detail of our lives and His greatest desire is for us to know Him intimately and know His love and to glorify Him the way we were created to. That in spite of our junk and our messed up selves - He would give himself up on a cross - as Jesus - to save our measly little lives. Just ridiculousness. I can't express how amazing it is. 


Read a tattoo today that a guy just got - "Every saint has a past, every sinner has a future." Not sure what his interpretation of it was but I just see it as a hopeful statement - a reminder of our humanity and yet the hope that we have a future in Christ. So cool. 


God I just praise you and ask for your protection over the youth of this town - over kids whose hearts are turned away from you or towards you - that you would bring these kids into a real lasting relationship with you - whether through a youth rally, or church, or youth group, or Young Life - I pray that more and more adults hearts would be motivated to invest in these kids lives - to bring encouragement where there is none and share hope with the hopeless. I just pray these things Jesus in your powerful name. Amen. 

just one strand

fragile.
like an eggshell.

already I see the cracks forming. spreading.

and I can't stop them.

transparent.

like plastic. if only I were hard as glass.

then you could not bend me.

but perhaps you'd break me.

knotted like rope.

or two small fists.

not willing to unfurl myself.

it's too vulnerable. not safe.

lost.

in this mess.

how did it get so huge?

there was just one strand.

and then another.

and another.

desperate.

can't turn my back.

at least not fully.

can't love God and abandon love.

they don't co-exist.

unless I play by my rules.

but I won't.

fill me.

my cries feel empty.

but only You can change that.

You who gave breath.

who created with a word.

who saw beauty before it existed.

You who brought light into the darkest place.

next to you, there is only light.

only You can strengthen the fragile.

affirm the transparent.

undo the knotted.

find the lost.

save the desperate.

fill me Jesus. fill me God.

I lay my burdens at Your feet.

Sun-kissed snow

I blinked my eyes. Once. Twice. 

A painting stood before me.

An explosion of blues and whites.

Light spilled out.

Shadows crept in.

The result - stunning.

Sky greeted earth like an old friend.

Meeting in that familiar way.

Different expressions.

One complimented the other.

Rays of sun played hide and seek

In amongst the trees.

Every now and then - I caught one.

I felt comfortable.

Standing tall. 

My shadow - it caught the light.

A cemetery of trees.

Cloaking an eerie silence with beauty.

Resilience stood here.

Through a fire that sought to steal its life.

A black beauty.

Solitary and yet marked by the scars a community has bourn.

These gentle giants wait for spring.

They wait.

Alas - we have left our Narnian world.

Where time stands still - but for a moment.

The road is alive. 

This land it moves.

And yet I will return to that place.

Of stillness and sun-kissed snow.

My skies will carry me there.

Soon enough.

YL Camp Promo Video

So after lots of hard work and editing and re-editing - the YL Uxbridge Rockridge Canyon Promo Video is finished. My hope is that YL Uxbridge kids who went will look back and remember that awesome week and the different ways that God met them in the midst of all the craziness. I hope that Uxbridge kids who are thinking about going this summer will be even more convinced that they want to be part of something like this.

And lastly, I hope that through showing it to adults and kids in Slave Lake, it will be used by God to bring Young Life to this town. I have been sharing left and right about Young Life and doing what I can to get involved in the youth community here. Between outreach lunches, gym nights, and trying to start up a music night for high school kids, I feel I am more and more convinced that Young Life would be an awesome tool for introducing kids to Christ in Slave Lake.

This town has been through so much with the May fire and flood and on top of all that - there is a definite spiritual battle here. I have heard several stories of adults and kids seeing spirits and there are definitely some dark battles going on that most of us don't even realize.

You have to be creative in this town and for the youth - there's just not that much to do and the main entertainment is house parties. I am really praying and hoping that God will show me how to bring Young Life, because I keep meeting kids and thinking, 'Man, I'd love to see his life changed, or her life changed, through experiencing God's love' with a relational ministry like Young Life.

I feel like Moses going up against Pharoah - ill-equipped and overwhelmed and asking God to hand the task to someone else. And yet I am certain that this is why God has called us to Slave Lake.

We got to come back to Ontario for a weekend to see our friends get married and visit family and friends. When we were on our way back to Slave Lake, I felt such a peace. I was excited to go back for the main reason that I feel like God has a purpose to play out through Jay and I and I am committed to stay here as long as He is calling us here.

It is that sense of purpose that drives me. I love that verse... "And I am confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on til completion until the day of Jesus Christ.."

and without further ado...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CQPEhjxXHeg&feature=share

We got internet!!

After days and weeks of Telus saying we would get internet and then dashing our hopes to the ground, we arrived home today to find they had set it up a day earlier than they promised! Thank you Telus!

I would love to write a blog right now and update on everything that has happened but my husband would rather watch Netflix haha so I will have to set aside an hour or so tomorrow :) 

Young Life in Slave Lake?

I want to bring Young Life into Slave Lake.

There. I've said it out-loud. I just have this sense that I can't shake that a lot of teenagers are slipping through the cracks in this town. We have visited four different churches here and all of them were half-full and of the people that were there - there were barely any youth. Why is that?

I've already met some really great teenagers here - Christians and non-Christians. I would love to see Young Life become part of their lives. To see them become part of something that is so relational and God-focussed and oriented about meeting kids where they're at.

Back in Stouffville, we had a Young Life leadership team of volunteers (ranging from age 18-40+). There was also a full-time and part-time leader. We really got to know the high school kids we worked with. Whether it was going to their games, meeting them at Tim's or Tin Cup, going to movies, or just chilling on a Saturday - we got involved in their lives. It was their relationships with us that drew them to Young Life and their relationships with their friends that drew their friends to Young Life.

Suddenly Christian kids weren't compartmentalizing who they were at school as someone different from who they were at church. Suddenly their non-Christian friends were asking to come check out Young Life and these kids had to really live their faith. Young Life provided a safe place to ask questions - Does God exist? Why would He love a kid like me? Who is Jesus? - questions that were worked through over the course of a year - not all at once in a youth service. I feel its so important that kids really get to see the Christian life lived before they just take it on - to actually know what they're getting into.

Without being too specific - I can just say that from what I've seen so far here in SL, a lot of kids are not being reached by the churches. I see real potential for Young Life to start up in Slave Lake.
I know it would be resisted by some - probably the churches as churches often feel threatened that Young Life wants to steal their kids - but the ironic thing is that Young Life isn't after the kids saturated in the church life - Young Life is seeking out the kids who would never feel comfortable stepping foot in a church, who can not relate to the type of church services and youth services that are going on. Those are the kids I have a heart for - the kids that both Jay and I want to connect with.

And so if you read this and feel God moving you to pray about it - please do. Jay and I are both very convinced that we are to play a role in bringing Young Life into this community. We are not sure how to go about it - but we know first and foremost we just want to see what comes of building relationships with the high school kids here.

I was feeling really overwhelmed last night about the whole idea and just really wondering if I'm in over my head and so I flipped open my Bible to a random page and said, "Ok God, tell me something." I haven't done that in a while so I figured - why not? There was a verse that I had put bars around and this is what it said:

Proverbs 19:20
"Listen to advice and accept instruction,
that you may gain wisdom in the future.
Many are the plans in the mind of a man,
but it is the purpose of the LORD that will stand."

So that pretty much sums it up - Jay and I need to keep praying about this whole thing and seeing who he puts in our path to give us instruction and hopefully there will be other people excited about the potential of seeing young life come here. And above all - just to keep being open to God's purposes in all this and not getting caught up in my own visions and plans.

www.younglife.ca    > if anyone of you are curious to know more about Young Life - here's the overall website

are we becoming like the people of Babel?

Was reading BBC news and found this article. After reading it, I felt sad. And it reminded me of the Tower of Babel story in the Bible.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-16536598

I think technology is great but some of the ideas make us sound as though we are trying to play God. And that is a scary concept. More and more, you can see the world trying to eliminate God from our everyday lives. A world without Jesus is a very scary world to me.

Maybe I'm taking this to the extreme. Your thoughts?

shiny nails, a new believer and apathetic Christians

"I got to be a part of something incredible today. Leading a guy I just met to Christ."

If I said that to you, what would be your reaction?

That's awesome.
Incredible!
Wow. How did it happen?

or would it be...

Oh that's nice.
Oh yay.
Well, I've seen that guy here before alot. It might just be one of those recommitting things.

Sadly, I see a real complacency in us Christians. That last comment was made by a woman who I shared this with and I immediately responded indignantly "Well it's not our place to judge that," to which she said, "Oh well yes of course, but you know what I mean.' I said ok and walked off to prevent myself from saying something I shouldn't.

Why do we Christians not get excited and estactic over new believers? Where have we lost that excitement? We are so excited to share with other Christians the way God has challenged us and yet when someone we know struggles goes and repents we instantly question if they really meant it and we don't get fully excited.  I know I myself am guilty of this and I want to challenge any Christian who reads this to think about how you have fallen short in this degree.

Christianity for alot of us has become something that is ours and we get stuff out of it and we enjoy this relationship with God but as someone once described it - its like we are sitting in a hot tub, just saturating it and we get all pruny in our faith cuz we're hogging it to ourselves.

This guy that became a Christian this morning - he may fit the stereotype of someone struggling but who flippin well cares. I told him - see all these people in this church. They all look good but I can guarantee you they have struggled with stuff as you have and have done things they're not proud of. In fact this analogy came into my head and maybe it's silly but I'll share it anyways. I just put on fake nails yesterday and this morning my thumb nail fell off. If you didn't see my thumb you'd think I had these classy slick looking nails. My thumb nail is a different story. I've bitten away at it so much it's horrible looking. In fact all my nails look like that . Jay goes crazy when I bite my nails and I admit they look horrible. God gave me this comparison that a lot of the people in church this morning looked like my fake nails- well polished and shiny, spotless Christians. This guy who became a Christian looked more like my thumb nail - shabbier, not churchy and looking completely uncomfortable and out of place. But really all those other people look like my nails underneath the fake layer - we are all shabby and rough looking on the inside and yet we work so hard as Christians to convey a polished look.

I am not drawn to polished Christians . When this guy told me he had been struggling with alcoholism but had been sober for several months I was so honoured he would be so open. Often its the people who are most broken who are vulnerable because they recognize their brokenness. Most Christians are so good at feeling right with God they are so untouchable.

I am the type of person who is closest friends with people who wear their hearts and struggles on their sleeves. I just can't relate to people who have it all together and are just dandy. So if you're like that, we're prob not close. I've been accused of being too deep ha but so what - I was able to tell this guy that I've struggled with depression-type thoughts, anger, bitterness, swearing, and suicidal thoughts in my life and that God has broken through that stuff for me. Granted the swearing is still a struggle and the easy anger but hey I told this guy straight up as I'm telling you that God has been real to me in the darkest of places.

Please if you read this don't just walk away and think oh man Beth's got problems - I mean I do ha I'm pretty messed up sometimes but please be challenged to be honest with where you've struggled because God will use your imperfectness to reach others for Him.
And truly think to yourself the last time you told someone about Jesus.

When was the last time you shared the gospel?
When was the last time you chose to do your own thing over God prompting you to reach out to someone else?
Do you get excited when someone goes up at church to be prayed for?
Or when you hear of someone becoming a Christian?

After this guy accepted Jesus into his life this morning I hugged him and said, "Guess what, you're part of a family of God now. You're my brother. You're the pastor's brother." And do you know what he said? He said, "Wow, a new family. That's great cuz my old family threw me away a long time ago."

Listen here people  - there are so many blessings that God has given us that we take for granted. I know cuz I do too most of the time but I am being convicted now to challenge others in this regard because I feel very strongly that we get more excited about hockey games or tv shows that we do about someone becoming a Christian. And for those watching from the outside, if that's doesn't excite us, then what about God does?

Untangling my walk with God...

Living in a small town you hear things about people. Things that have been carried from one person's lips to another, possibly getting tangled up in speculation along the way.

My dad challenged me the other day to look back and remember what God planted in my heart before the move to Slave Lake - things he told me about this place and what it would be to me.

The main thing I got from God was that Slave Lake was to be a mission-field - a place that he would use me out of my comfort zone. When we gave up the missionary dream with MAF, we were afraid that we were being disobedient to God. But he affirmed this move to Slave Lake as obedience.

When I arrived, the first job I applied to was given a face of over-exuberant Christianity. I was told that it was a Christian atmosphere and was given to playing only Christian music and handing out tracks. Quite frankly, this turned me off. I wasn't craving to work in a 'Christian' environment. My last job was in one and it was undoubtedly a real jewel in that it was a very genuine Christian workplace. But I have worked in a lot 'Christian' workplaces and have seen the difficulty and the bumps in the road when people try to mix Christianity with business. I just felt that it was time for me to break out of that bubble in my work life.

It is easy when you have grown up in the Christian culture, to say you're a Christian and look like a Christian and talk like Christian. But it is a lot harder to go and actually be a Christian in a place that is secular. To be like Jesus instead of just talking about him and I was craving this challenge in my own life.

So, I applied to a different job with this perspective in mind and God confirmed it almost immediately. And this job has already challenged my spiritual walk in the way I react to people, to situations, to the overwhelming overload of info that I am expected to know and work with in this new job.

I have struggled already with swearing out loud at my desk, with certain personalities at work, with feeling overwhelmed and frustrated. These are all things that you experience in a Christian and non-Christian workplace. But the main difference is that noone is expecting you in a non-Christian workplace to 'act' like a Christian. It is normal to swear out loud, normal to avoid certain people, normal to be ok with all that. And thus, here is the point where my faith in Jesus is actually put to test.

Do I listen to or join in gossip or do I rise above it and just pray about it? Do I get frustrated or bitter with people or do I pray for them and commit frustrations to God? These are precisely the things that I am happy that I am being challenged on.

Going back to what I first said, about speculation getting tangled up with gossip.
 Coming to a small town, where everyone knows everyone's history and faults and messups  - I want to choose to not giving in to the need to know all that. Rather I want to try and take people as they are, respect the red flags and discernment God gives me about them, but make sure to try and love them anyway and respect my relationship with Jesus in the way I represent him.

I can't guarantee that I will hold to this all the time cuz let's face it, I really mess up this whole representing Christ thing a lot, but I am going to try and surrender it to God and just keep going after the messups.

Was talking to Becca just now and she was mentioning how with yoga you do a move and then come back to your centre, and then another move and back to your centre. She spoke about this relating to her life in terms of her feelings and when she is frustrated, taking the time to go off and pray through stuff and come back to the centre of being in Christ. That is how I feel too!!

My new job

God is so good to me and I can't understand why. I take him for granted all the time, I pass up time with my Bible for time on fb, I choose a million and one things over pouring my time into him and yet he still blesses me. God, I just don't get it.

Been working at Northern Lakes College since Tuesday as full-time - no training and it's been incredibly overwhelming. Tuesday and Wednesday I came home and had a bath, I was so exhausted. And I never crave baths, ha.

But today it was like a whole different job. Finally all the jargon and stuff I've been hearing starting to make sense in its own right and it became a whole lot easier to understand today. I've still got loads of questions for Tracy - the poor woman who's juggling her new position and training me in her old position. She's a marvel.

Going to Skype Becca Mustard now. Need the familiarity of talking to someone who knows me really well and isn't someone who lives here. I'm finding it a challenge to write this blog the way I've written the other blogs as it noone ever read my other blogs and I could write as personally as I wanted. This is a small town and I have to be careful of what I say and who I say it to. So it is a real gift to talk to a friend outside of it all.

Peace. xo